Maybe you are mistaking "They were so successful, so they didn't need to raise" with "they didn't raise, so they were successful".
Maybe you are mistaking "They were so successful, so they didn't need to raise" with "they didn't raise, so they were successful".
In the early days of my company, I applied to YCombinator, was a 2x Techstars finalist, and pitched Fred Wilson at USV's office. Rejected by everyone - but honestly, if I'd taken their money I probably would have mismanaged it and brought the company to an early end.
This is the best of both worlds.
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I don't doubt that investment money thrown at the correct product can spur it along. However, I believe most investors are looking for long shots, or returns better than the stock market. To obtain those type of gains, they will invest in the companies that can go boom or bust.
In contrast, the company that doesn't take money is incentivized to simply not go bust (even if it grows more slowly). They have to be cautious, keep their customers and grow. It's a requirement.
That being said, I don't disagree with you. Perhaps, I'm completely wrong in gneral, but from my circle of friends that appears to be the case.