The flashlight analogy is actually one that I not only described to people, but built a unique product around in the '90s. CyberFiber (yeah ... it was an tongue-in-cheek name for an engineering project that escaped into the marketing and sales department) was a duplex communication platform that used the same wave-length of light for both directions. It was a great marketing tool but required that your optical connections had very low reflectivity (and nobody likes to put coupling gel in their connectors).