How hard is it to throw together an Emacs command that re-styles your parenthesis? I know the creators of Go went so far as a to make a program that converts "valid" Go code into "canonical" Go code. Parentheses seem like an easy problem to solve. If people can re-parenthesize their code with the press of a button, you can still have the community interoperability without having to sacrifice inclusiveness of personal eccentricities.