>but every time I get to Bach, I stop short. I just can't stand the music.
What's not to like in these e.g.?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gv94m_S3QDo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2cVSgEdT4KI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9EN27Zh_vg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tv40mcAM1ZA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uzZu9HZBWA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGQLXRTl3Z0
>I understand the music is important historically and that it has a technical beauty
Historically? Technical beauty only? Huh?