To try and escape both pitfalls I attempt to follow Altucher's advice to have less opinions.
https://jamesaltucher.com/2012/12/ten-reasons-i-dont-have-op...
https://jamesaltucher.com/2012/12/ten-reasons-i-dont-have-op...
If you’re wealthy this is no problem of course. The wealthier you are, the less opinions you should share or fight for. You can afford this because you can always put your fortune (and yourself) into an available free society with property rights.
If you’re poor however, it only works as long as reason and democracty triumphs in your society. Because nobody will want you if you ever have to flee.
Are you saying the Syrians caused the war, and did that by not having enough opinions?