The SEO angle won't work-- JavaScript widgets aren't seen by spiders nowadays. The SEO hackers who did what you're referring to added links below the javascript in the code they provided. Downside of this is that if the OP wants to go this route, he can't retroactively add a link to these current users. Unless the link/anchor text relates to widget, Google will ban your ass. The guy who did the online dating thing did in fact get slapped HARD by Google. You can read about it here: http://www.seomoz.org/blog/widgetbait-gone-wild