acme-dns is specifically designed for this purpose: https://github.com/joohoi/acme-dns
By "UPDATE ACL" I believe that you are referring to the DNS UPDATE RFC[0] -- it looks like cert-manager doesn't support generic UPDATEs yet[1].
Thinking about it again I'm not sure that I fully understand what you were suggesting -- are you suggesting adding a CNAME for x.example.com that redirects to yyyy.different-provider.com, and letting let's encrypt follow and work it out?
I also wanted to know how everyone was trusting with their DNS requirements/how people were making the decision (cost, trust, privacy, country of origin, whatever else).
Probably the easiest way forward if you have any infrastructure yourself is to simply delegate some subzone of one of your domains to a nameserver you run yourself (like, delegate letsencrypt.yourdomain.example to your own nameserver), then point your CNAME to a name beneath that, and configure that nameserver for dynamic updates so your LE client can change the TXT record(s) on that server as needed.
Alternatively, you can delegate the _acme-challenge zone to a nameserver under your control, although you then have to configure each of the zones on the nameserver too.
Since I'll need an _acme-challenge.* PER-DOMAIN, doesn't this just move the goalpost to setting up the CNAME records (instead of TXT records directly), assuming my current registrar doesn't support wildcard CNAME entries?
If I'm understanding DNS 01 ACME challenges correctly, to register two subdomains first.one.example.com and second.one.example.com, I need to set up TWO TXT records, _acme-challenge.first.one.example.com and _acme-challenge.second.one.example.com. This means I need two CNAME records (or one if wildcards were enabled)...
I do thank you for your input, thinking about this has lead me to the possibility of just running my own nameserver all-together, I'm going to evaluate all these approaches and see how they pan out, and write a blog post to share.
According my reading of the challenge specification [1] it shouldn't work. Notice that it says:
> 2. Query for TXT records for the validation domain name Verify that the contents of one of the TXT records match the digest value
To me, this means that it should issue a query for TXT records only (not for ANY) and hence the server shouldn't even see your CNAME "redirector" record.
Thus, if your method works, either the server is wrongly implemented, there's a flaw in my reading comprehension, or the specification should be amended...
[1] https://ietf-wg-acme.github.io/acme/draft-ietf-acme-acme.htm...