I don't see the conflict here. I think it's very factual and true that most Black people are not violent, most Chinese people are not cheaters, and most White people are not racist.
> it's ok to discuss violence in Black communities and cheating in Asia, but it would be racist to assert that because you are Black/Asian/White you are more predisposed to violence/cheating/racism
Your implication is that something cannot be true if it is racist. This is a non sequitor. Race should never have been brought up in the first place.