> ... the reality is troubling, because much of what is done is faux-agile, disregarding agile's values and principles.
This is a problem with "agile" and scrum. If the process isn't working for you, it's your fault for not doing it right. And no one is ever doing it right. A truly "agile" team is one that operates in some impossibly perfect Zen-like state that no team achieves in practice.
Maybe it's not you. Maybe it is the process.