The dating game in this country is broken, as evidence I point at the 50%+ divorce rate.
I propose a better solution. One where a dating website has "ground rules" that if you break, you get three strikes and your out. Rules like you have to respond to the suitor with a reason why you are incompatible. Rules like if you are chronically offending other people, you get restricted rights. If you are beautiful and get hundreds of messages and don't respond to any, you get removed from search. If a suitor comes up, fitting all your criteria for a date, and you don't like them, and can't quote a reason why you don't like them, you get a emblem on your profile that says: "Profile criteria inaccurate, this person doesn't have any idea what they want". Which would encourage one to actually put down what they want in the mate, instead of the fluff that women/men actually put down.
This article describes many of the failings of the current dating website methodology and how it could be improved: Hi, I want to meet 17.6% of you: http://interviews.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=08/02/19/14192...