I don't agree it makes it a "harem", but an interesting stat:

"It was determined that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men."

I knew (Anecdotal) this was true watching a female friend using dating apps. Her inbox, full of hundreds of unread messages. Any guy would have read each message 3 times.

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-g...