As expected, hatred is roughly proportional to popularity. Bjarne was right when he said "There are only two kinds of programming language: the ones people complain about and the ones nobody uses."
Actually if we compare the Stack Exchange hatred list against the TIOBE index, then we can correct for the amount of 'expected' hatred (the kind that is proportional with usage)
VBScript: Hated much more than expected
PHP: Hated more than expected
Java: Hated less than expected
Visual Basic: Hated slightly more than expected
ColdFusion: Hated much more than expected
C++: Hated much less than expected
Disclaimer, those are a bunch of vague guesses based on two sources of questionable data.