I'm nearing fourties, only working intermittent contracts, managed to accumulate enough for a modest FIRE through them (would like a bit more to upgrade the lifestyle though), spend a lot of time between contracts working on things that interest me. On personal front, I haven't been in relationship for over 10 years now (don't have kids as well). I feel like I'm an outlier as far as general population goes, probably not as much here in HN.