> That still requires a monstrous amount of technology and energy, doesn't it?
If we wanted we could spend ~10 years R&D on a practical nuclear pulse drive and send a probe at 10% the speed of light to the nearest solar system. That makes 40 years travel time for the probe and 4 years communication delay. Add some time for acceleration , deceleration and exploration and we might be able to send a colony ship 60 years after the probe left. Another 40 years travel time and we have a colony on another solar system 110 years from now, at a price point attainable for a large corporation or a medium sized country (after all most of the cost is research spread over half a century)
Now imagine what a more advanced civilization with more incentives for colonisation could do.
Presumably all those aliens that aren't getting to space because of their nuclear wars are that much more likely to be willing to use nuclear power for space travel, too, in which you'd think at least one of them would have threaded the needle between nuking their home planet, but getting to self-sustaining in space, first.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Orion_(nuclear_propuls...
I agree it's unlikely that our civilization does it now. But given some time and a handful of civilizations and it seems like it should happen all the time (even more so if overpopulation or collapsing ecosystems were serious problems for some civilisations)