> Mr. Beecher advised young men to get in debt if they could to a small amount in the purchase of land, in the country districts. <snip>
> This may be safe to a limited extent, but getting in debt for what you eat and drink and wear is to be avoided.
Or if you ever got laid off.
Or if you ever got injured or severely sick and found yourself with shocking hospital bills.
When life hits you with something like that, suddenly that monthly payment, and the risk of foreclosure, bankruptcy, and severely damaged credit, all looms large over your head like the Sword of Damocles.
Yes a mortgage is real debt.
https://www.investopedia.com/articles/pf/12/good-debt-bad-de...
That being said, it's a general statement, specific cases of those can be "bad debts" if they are taken out recklessly and/or without forethought and planning and budgeting.
You also pay interest, which could be a huge amount (depending on how quickly, if ever, you pay off your principal).
Do you own that much? Let's put some real numbers on this. You buy a $350k house, and put down $70k (20%). That leaves you with a $280k mortgage at 4%. This gives you a monthly mortgage payment of $1,337.
If you pay that monthly, you would own 51% of the house ($175k of equity) some time in the 16th year of your mortgage. After making 188 mortgage payments. Note, this doesn't include housing value appreciation.
COST
20% down - $70k
mortgage payments ($1,337 * 188) - $251,356
Never forget though, you are paying quite a bit for the use of that money (i.e. the banks). This is mitigated in a rising market, but lots of houses (well land, really) don't appreciate fast enough to counter this.
Not to mention the additional costs. It might be more accurate to think of your house as a depreciating asset (the house) bundled with a (hopefully) appreciated asset (the land it is on)