If you apply the same reasoning that you've used to conclude that everyone should avoid mmap, than you are led directly to the conclusion that everyone should avoid virtual memory.
The "same problems" that you are pointing out are possible with anonymous memory aren't unique to memory you get directly from mmap, they also apply to all memory, period. mmap'ed anonymous memory might have th same problems as file-backed memory, but those are the same problems that .text and .bss have.
The "powerful (and consequently hazardous) OS feature" here isn't mmap, it's literally virtual memory. At the moment you concede that memory may be backed by something besides physical memory at any point in time, you get the possibility of all those "exotic error paths."