Interesting take. We'll get back to this in a moment.
> They want a contest of power: Who can stigmatize, harass, and physically intimidate the other side into submission?
And yet weirdly you're part of a group hear arguing that we should not call this violence? If this isn't violence, then why shouldn't I stigmatize you? What do you care? So long as no punch is thrown, you've been arguing no foul has been committed!
If speech, association and the implication of violence are so trivial that it cannot constitute violence, then why are you arguing that you don't want it used against you?
Perhaps we should ask our resident 13-dimensional chess player who saw this question coming, jlawson.
> But why, then, do some people hold onto this absurdity tooth and nail, refusing to give it up even when it's clearly causing miscommunication? It gives some benefit to them.
> They want a contest of power: Who can stigmatize, harass, and physically intimidate the other side into submission?
And that's why you're simultaneously arguing that speech cannot be violence but also arguing that it is a violence used against you and thus granting you a moral right to invoke those very same mechanics.