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My main experience with this is every time my wife gave birth. She goes through this long ordeal and is exhausted, but as long as we were there they were in every 2 hours, day and night, waking her up and talking to her. They don't seem to have any concept of people needing to sleep more than 2 hours continuously. The only thing I could come up with is that they really wanted us to get out of there ASAP and were making things a living hell to encourage us towards that end. Except, one of my rules is to follow the money and they make more money the longer we stay, so... it really doesn't make any sense.

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We’ve had 4 babies in 3 different hospitals and it seems like it is really dependent on the hospital and the nursing staff. We’ve had nurses that are younger and just following the playbook all the way to nurses that are much older with several of their own children who are much more willing to use their intuition. While the nurses have all been surprisingly excellent (maybe it’s a maternity thing? That hasn’t been our experience in other parts of the hospitals) some of them are happy to let you sleep if it seems like there’s no bleeding and baby is doing well, and some of them insist on taking all the readings, though they were all apologetic while they did it.

Since we went through different hospitals, it’s hard to compare, but at the last one, it seemed like the fact that we had 3 healthy children at home already made the nurses surprisingly willing to defer to our preferences, and we got as close to a full night of sleep in the hospital with a newborn that you can get.

As an added data point, we also told the nurses at every hospital that we wanted to leave as soon as possible, so trying to kick us out wasn’t a consideration.

My wife's experience was much the same. So much that when I had an emergency appendectomy I answered every question with the goal of being discharged and not spending the night.

I was even more motivated when I overheard a phone call from a patient down the hall. It was so loud that my nurse rolled her eyes and informed me he be awake until 3am. I was sure between him and the nurses there wouldn't be any sleep in that place. I got out about 20 minute before the cutoff time for being stuck in hell.

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