Could you give an example of something with this decentralization quality as you described?
Zuckbucks provide a centralised service running on decentralised infrastructure. Try add your own server to help run Zuck's blockchain...
I don't agree with grandparent for what it's worth, just thought this might work as a reply to your question.
I strongly suspect that what we have developed a habit of calling decentralization, as if this referred to a final state of a proposed coordination solution, is in fact just a temporary, transitional phase between centralized regimes.