How do you ensure stability? Based on the "learn more" section, I would presume the soft body is made up of vertices stitched together with damped springs. Is that accurate?
Drag is computed[2] for all the particles using something similar to the Drag equation[3].
Also, like electricslpnsld said, having a small enough time step helps.
[1] https://github.com/loicbourgois/gravitle/blob/master/fronten...
[2] https://github.com/loicbourgois/gravitle/blob/master/src/par...