How do you determine if they're harmless? I had a spider bite a couple of weeks ago that gave me a welt the size of a dime (and super itchy).
I'm pretty good at identifying the dangerous spiders now (i.e. distinguishing brown recluse from wolf), but it took several instances of trapping the spider under a glass and then breaking out my cell phone and looking at lots of pictures.
If your area has lots of kinds of dangerous spiders then it might be more of a pain, though.
I think what the parent comment was worried about was painful bites more-so than death (though that's also worrying).