Hmmh, but a whale's sensori-motor skills are quite rudimentary compared to a human's. A human can manipulate objects, walk, run, dance, swim, jump. A whale can only swim and maybe do a fairly restricted set of dives?
More body mass means more nerves that need to send and receive information from the central nervous system.
So even assuming a constant amount nerve endings in cm^3 of flesh between whales and humans a whale will have significantly more.