I genuinely feel bad for your children. You see yourself as somehow metaphysically enlightened and beyond reproach by non-parents, just by virtue of having them - I can't imagine how tyrannical you are in your relationship with them.
> By this standard, people who have not had experience or learning in a given domain are just as qualified in that domain as those who have.
So which is it, experience alone, or learning or experience?
Then in your "given domain" example here, you're falsely claiming that we think the qualifications are precisely equal.