Yeah, I agree. “It’s all reddit’s fault” is not helpful at all and simply wrong from reading that thread.
You say:
"Some people go far, far, far over the line."
So some people are assuming this is just the maintainer responding badly to people pointing out problems with his or her code, but you are saying it went far beyond that into personal attacks?
FWIW what you say matters a lot, pretty sure you have a ton of respect from a lot of engineers across multiple language communities (myself definitely included).
I definitely appreciate how difficult it is to be the "custodian" of a) a language community and b) an open source project within that community.