Ah yes another excuse to blame others, particularly your parents, for your problems. What would we do without the field of Psychology (tm) and the wonderful results of plugging and chugging high school stats formulas.
Your comment suggests that you were fortunate enough not to experience frequent moves and social issues during your childhood.
At the same time, you seem to lack empathy towards others' pain. I am sorry for people around you.
For people in reasonable but not stellar circumstances, the "don't blame others, own your life" advice is probably appropriate. For others, that advice amounts to insidious gaslighting.