Why do you think we talk about the lack of women in STEM, but not the lack of men in HR, education, social work, psychology, etc?
Because bigots set the agenda.
Having sports programs for one sex has been ruled illegal under Title IX — but how many universities have special tutoring just for women?
That is, programs to help women in majors where they trail but offering no similar programs for men in majors where they trail.
Again, the reason we don’t talk about that illegal discrimination is because bigots set the agenda.