At this point I think it is a frying pan / fire equation.
Although NY might not be the best place, where would, and can you get there in time, and without risk.
I see how the calculation is that NY ICU will be overwhelmed, not sure that there is anywhere which will not be. I see little difference between a 1% chance of getting an ICU bed and a 0.02% chance. If it was me, I would stay put.