The good news is that these are outliers; this is not typical behavior for any size church, mega or otherwise.
1) obey the rulers and authorities (insomuch as it does not cause issue with any other command) and
2) love their neighbor. E.g. by not knowingly engaging in activity which might cause someone to fall ill
3) not flaunt freedom. While we have every _right_ to meet, we are not disobeying if we do not.
I [virtually] never understand how other people use "literal"...
There is a big difference between those who wish to come but are unable vs. those who are able but do not.
So yes, we should, but we are currently _unable_.