What is special about exfat? I see it’s a variant of FAT32 that allows for more than 4GB, and is mainly for creating USBs? Does this mean it will improve interop with Windows?
You should prefer a different filesystem if possible, though. EXFAT lacks features like journaling that protect against corruption. But EXFAT support is great for when you don't have a choice.
1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Journaling_file_system
2: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Copy-on-write#In_computer_stor...
Even if you are just sharing between Linux computers, ext2 is no good option, because of uid/gid values being inconsistent between computers. ext2 wasn't made with this use case in mind.