Consider my platform: https://sourcehut.org
Example list: https://lists.sr.ht/~sircmpwn/sr.ht-dev
Example list: https://lists.sr.ht/~sircmpwn/sr.ht-dev
For standalone installations you can also set up aliases like foobar@lists.example.org rather than ~username/foobar@lists.example.org.
Docs if you decide to give it a shot:
One day short of 13 years sterling service and Ecartis has been retired.
Bravo!