I will be mean, I am sorry but this kind of attitude piss me off.
If you are not able to run a ./configure / make / make install & 3 apt-get properly. Then you should just stay far from keyboard and not try to build anything. Whatever the language and the build system.
These "dumpfires" have been able for 20 years to build program scaling from 10 lines to 100M lines... On platforms that are maybe older than you (AIX, HP-UX...) and ranging from micro-controlers of few KB of RAM to the biggest supercomputers in the world... They work for for kernel mode and user mode... and are also able to build an entire OS distribution like OpenBSD.
They are indeed not perfect.... but they deserve at least a little bit of respect, even from the script kiddies not able to understand them.
And honestly, an other point where Theo is right: I bet that none of their (your) '3.0 Modern successor' will be able to replace them in the next 15 years.