Do you see the contradiction here?
Do you see the contradiction here?
He said there's no "absolute" obligation, but there are some by virtue of us living in a society.
If you say that there is no obligations, but also that you should follow some social expectations, then you’re contradicting yourself. It’s just a nicer way to say that people should behave according to what you consider to be acceptable.
Btw, which society rules do you mean? Because you have a lot of differences in different places regarding politeness and other social obligations.
The entire discussion is at the level of social expectations.
Correct, I think we agree on that.
> The entire discussion is at the level of social expectations.
No, this statement:
> No, there is no obligation. But there’s a thing called courtesy.
Is actually “No, there is no legal obligation. But there’s a thing called courtesy.“ And here the contradiction falls away and the discussion turns to whether there is a social expectation to be courteous. On that point my (and the above commenter, I suspect) would say that yes, of course there is an expectation of social courtesy. There’s one in every other setting too, so why not here?
As a Spaniard living in Japan, what social rules should I use to apply my social courtesy on Github?