But I didn't realize that keeping a reactor vessel (and fuel storage pools) cool after the reactor has been scrammed is such a challenge. I also didn't know that hydrogen explosions are a normal byproduct of cooling down a reactor core. Yes, I know that there are third generation reactor technologies available today that don't have all of these issues, and fourth generation technologies in development. I really do believe that we should be investing in these technologies to make nuclear power safer.
Unfortunately now we're stuck with a lot of aging reactors that are operating past their design life, and a public that is unwilling to bear the cost of the upgrades.
Japan is probably about the best prepared place that this incident could happen, and even they are having trouble keeping their scrammed reactors cool. And another earthquake could happen tomorrow, making the situation even more unmanageable.
I have far less confidence in almost any other country being able to handle a crisis like this. Nuclear power is clearly here to stay - Germany may eventually turn it's back on the technology, but there are dozens of third world countries running reactors now (or trying to).
Our focus really should be on making nuclear power as safe as possible, not on preventing it entirely. Perhaps the biggest problem with this current crisis is that it is the first nuclear incident where we can't just explain it away as 'human error'. Everything did work exactly as it was designed to, with the best trained people handling the crisis, and we still can't have complete confidence in the technology to cool itself off without releasing radiation into the environment.