>yeah no. one needs to take responsibility for actions.
How can you predict if your partner will leave you in future when you decide to have kid?
How can you predict if your partner will leave you in future when you decide to have kid?
do you have 0% control over it? hell no.
there is rarely a situation where you have 0 agency and if you incentivize certain types of behavior (by providing aid/benefits) you will get that type of behavior.