It's kind of petty on my part, but I'm not the type that wins arguments. So I decided, despite loving the people I worked with, that I was not in the right job. Now I design and develop software mostly individually and I'm infinitely happier. Someone who is competitive and enjoys confrontation would thrive in that role though.
Point is, people have lots of different reasons for changing jobs. And something that makes one group happy may make another miserable. I also hate traveling to conferences, but that's the nature of the job sometimes.