Civility? How about you take an honest look at the evil that the US military and its death cult has brought to the world, and then we can be civil.
There is nothing civil about justifying the utter evil that the American military complex is enacting on the world.
Your attempt to avoid confronting that issue is very telling. It is scary, especially if you are a citizen whose military is responsible for these crimes against humanity. It will come back to you, citizen, eventually.