It was my comment that described it as gaslighting. I think it's a reasonable use of the term when in the thread the mod says it's partially your fault you can no longer see the size of a folder, the way you have been accustomed to doing for the last 30 years.
"Well, a big part of the problem is how few people actually follow through with requests using the mechanism."
No, Google, I think a big part of the problem is that you didn't implement a feature that has been a staple of computers for decades.