Compared to this, rockets are tightly controlled environment and running for a very short time. There is also incredible amount of redundancy and supervision in a rocket but you will not be able to have double of every critical component in a car and then have separate controller to check if both are returning matching results and which might be faulty and you will not have a team of specialists obsessing every time something did not work exactly right.
That said, mass produced electronics are cheap - even automotive grade ones. It wouldn't add that much to the BOM, it would be mostly design cost. I just can't see the justification without it being required by regulation.
In the rocket case, you need very tight tolerances, but it does not matter much if it fails 1 in 1000 times since the total-system-failure rate is on the order of 1 in 100. A single 1 in 1000 failure mode does not massively increase total-system-failure rate. However, in the car case the tolerances are worse, but the requirement to consistently deliver on those tolerances is vastly more important. Consider Ford Pinto which sold 3,000,000 cars and had 27 deaths attributed to the fuel tank design defect. A 1 in 100,000 failure mode is viewed as an unconscionable deathtrap, so adding a single 1 in 1000 failure mode would make your system 100x deadlier than the most egregious example of an unsafe system.
The prevailing rate of system errors tells you what sort of errors a quality assurance process can detect. If you have 1 in 1000 system errors, then it means you can probably detect things on that order otherwise your system error rate would be dominated by those higher frequency errors. However, you probably can not or do not bother to detect 1 in 1,000,000,000 errors since they would either happen so infrequently compared to other errors or not be worth solving since they have such a minor impact on overall reliability.
So, in summary, reliability is different from tolerances, techniques used on low reliability systems are not necessarily applicable to high reliability systems, rockets are on the order of 10,000-1,000,000 less reliable than cars, so technology used on rockets does not necessarily apply to high reliability industries.
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I believe this is the setup they use for the main stabilization computer on each stage, as well as the engine controllers for each engine.