FYI lithium is not using a libpq fork from 2016, it has been rebased on master 1 month ago. but yes Lithium (the sql-pipeline branch) is using it. (I mailed the drogon maintainer to update it aswell).
About H2O, the non batched version of lithium is as fast (slighly faster on some tests, slighly slower on others), while being much simpler to use (implementation of TFB of H20 is 4400 lines vs 250 lines for lithium...)