And the ethnic cleansing and being drafted?

I used to work with a guy at British Telecom who had been in the under 21 national football squad of one of the waring nations - he was drafted and lost his lower leg to a mine.

He was medevac'd to the UK and with support from a local business man did a degree at Manchester I think

NATO intervention in the Yugoslav civil war wasn't carpet bombing civilian houses and hostile invasion, they bombed key military and infrastructure targets and sent troops in to stop a genocide. Though of course there were plenty of civilian casualties.