You're right you don't sound depressed.
You however, sound very very negative.
You however, sound very very negative.
I was just asserting what he said and what it came off as.
Makes sense. Unless you have some kind of solid evidence to suggest that things will go well, there's no basis for being positive. At most you could argue that being positive can increase motivation, confidence, etc. But you have to weigh that against the risk for disappointment, discouragement, etc in the long run if you encounter repeated failure or disillusionment. And motivation aside, being realistic can be more helpful than being positive for some people.