The real estate crash hasn't rippled ... yet.
Lots of younger people have moved home. High cost-of-living rental areas are going to lose those renters permanently. Once those younger people swallow their pride and move home ... there really isn't anything pulling them back.
Commercial real estate is like Wile E. Coyote running in mid-air trying not to look down. The commercial real estate has lots of empty spaces with no real prospect of refilling them ... yet they're placing those on the books by tacking them onto the end of the financing at the same level as they were when they were rented. That works great ... until the cash flow can't support anything at which point it all collapses together.
Of course, this is all going to hang together like the traders before 2008: "They're is a crash coming. If I'm right, it's almost impossible for me to diversify enough to survive because the trashing is going to be so thorough. If I'm wrong, I look like an idiot and lose money. So, I'll close my eyes and toe the company line and see if I can cash out before the devastation."
I just left a remote oriented(Major infrastructure automation startup) to work for a company in a HCOL area. Just completed the 2200 mile trek back from “home” with the pets and the family on Monday.
Anecdotal but the prospect of raising my kid in the middle of nowhere back “home” was not appealing. If I lost my remote gig I would have to take a 50% pay cut to hopefully find a job at one of a few employers locally- or pray I could get another remote gig in a very competitive job market.
Better nature, better job market and higher pay were a deciding factor. Just saying there are plenty of things that might pull a young person like myself and my partner back other than “pride.”
And I would point out that it completely ignores reality to think that it doesn't.
For better or worse in the US, a single male living with his parents at age 25 or above will generally be regarded as a "failure". You can claim otherwise, but the dating pool disagrees with you strongly.
However, I will concede that your situation (under 30 with a child but still in a place like the Bay Area) was not really what I was thinking about. That's kind of a minority for most high tech/high-COL areas which are renowned for having a highly skewed male/female ratio.
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/09/04/a-majority-...
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/09/04/a-majority-...
Of course, it's likely that this impact isn't going to be uniform, so that doesn't mean individual neighborhoods (or even individual cities) have no cause for concern.
It appears like quite a few. I can see into a lot of different apartments from where I live in SF and many, many more are empty. This might also be due to AirBnBs.
The real estate rental prices have fallen, but they're still pretty sticky - I predict they are going to fall more.