Here is an exhaustive list of all the resources you might need for frontend development
This list only covers the basics of React, and doesn't even include tooling.
That's the point :)
Unless you add every single resource it's not exhaustive. It's possible to have exhaustive lists for lots of things, but for this? Maybe not.
it'd be cool if there was a tool that leveraged all this knowledge and presented a wizard that helped you find the best stack based on your preferences and needs.
This is mostly geared towards basic learning and documentation, so you definitely kinda need something else for finding a stack. You can pick one of the tutorials and use it as a guide for your future work.
I mean, it pretty much only covers React as far as frameworks go, so I guess if you follow it you'll pick React plus some CSS framework? There's still other stuff you need other than that for a "stack".