What are you talking about? SMS has groups.
So when you switch OSes you get kicked out of the group.
For some reason there are a number of people on hackernews that are really struggling with this idea and I'm kind of surprised it's so difficult to understand. I thought the last guy I talked to was just particularly dense but maybe I'm failing to communicate it effectively? Maybe it's harder to understand than I thought it was? I'm not sure.
So I guess my experience is that you don't get kicked out of the group.
what you have probably mistaken for is send to multiple destinations and reply-all.