It’s a hard question. You know your child better than anyone, but you don’t own your child nor their future.

There are legal expectations for parental behavior at a Societal level, and perhaps informally at a Community level. Is that enough?

Always thought a parental/guardian “report card” for those caring for school age children would be a good idea. We measure students and teachers, why not parents? Teachers rate parents on the educational support they provided their children and their teachers. Red/yellow/green, meaningful in child custody case and the like. Just an idea...