Do you mind providing examples of "anti features and dark patterns"? Just curious
As I have heard, Telegram is unencrypted by default. Both WhatsApp and Telegram are poor at making this 100% clear 100% of the time despite privacy being a major purpose of the apps. I'll admit I really haven't used telegram much but WhatsApp encourages backing up chats to cloud storage. WhatsApp also only provides a single alert that a contact's security code has changed. It also doesn't encourage verifying the security code on the initial contact. i.e if someone out of the blue contacts you on WhatsApp the only security is the phone number.