For many software projects, you simply cannot make meaningful granular estimations for parts of them. It doesn't matter how many story-point poker sessions you hold. Some software work cannot be reduced to a positive integer. In our business scopes creep, bugs plague us, and myriad issues make precise estimations pointless. It's engineering Numberwang.
I get that folks want to tame a chaotic world. But sometimes you can't. And the software engineering field in particular feels wildly neurotic about pretending otherwise. Sometimes I imagine applying our project management tools to other technical fields and laugh at how insane we must look.