If I'm interpreting your argument correctly, I think you're criticizing either section 4.1 Size Doesn’t Guarantee Diversity, or section 4.2 Static Data/Changing Social Views. But your criticisms don't track with either of those sections. 4.2 seems the best fit (since they discuss keeping models up to date with modes of communication). The claim made in the paper seems to be that an LM trained today will fail to keep up with shifts in language (and these can happen quickly, in months, not years in many contexts). This is true whether the context is "woke vocabulary" whatever that means, reclaimed slurs (such as "queer"), or memetic slang/shibboleths ("kek" or "do you listen to girl in red"). I don't see anyone saying that language models or designers are required to agree with "woke vocabulary". The closest I can come is the authors suggesting that models which fail to stay up to date with shifts in vocabulary (including, I guess, woke vocabulary) will be less effective. That seems trivially true. Can you clarify?
[0]: https://faculty.washington.edu/ebender/papers/Stochastic_Par...