I had a similar conversation when a black colleague was late for work, having been stopped and searched by the police in London.
The other 10 (white) developers were all shocked, but he said it as casually as someone might report they'd missed the train, or had a puncture on a bicycle. He was stopped regularly, nothing to be done about it.
No one else had ever been stopped.
(A few months later, one of these white developers and I were walking away from the office when the other guy was stopped by the police. They searched his backpack on suspicion of theft. They told us the description was "white youth, short black hair, red football shirt, riding a blue mountain bike with a black backpack", which exactly matched my colleague.)
The government figures say, from April 2019 to March 2020:
> there were 6 stop and searches for every 1,000 White people, compared with 54 for every 1,000 Black people
and this is an improvement!
https://www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/crime-jus...