How To Win Friends And Influence People
I found the part about criticism interesting. It doesn't work. Even Al Capone thought of himself as an underappreciated and misunderstood public benefactor.
I'm autistic though. Knowing what to do is far easier than doing it when you have crippling social anxiety.
I do think that one bit mentioned above was incredibly helpful though. I have quite a few more friends than I used to. I was actually always interested in most conversation topics I just started paying more attention to when its my turn to talk and let other people drive the discussion.